初次約會時,女生會撒這些謊

Everyone wants to put his or her best foot forward on a first date, so naturally, people tend to gloss over the truth or, in other words, make things sound better than they are. This is generally done in a harmless way, so let's consider these as "white lies" for the most part rather than "all-out" lies.

每個人都想在初次約會時呈現(xiàn)自己最好的一面，所以自然而然地，人們往往掩蓋真相，換句話說，會把話說的更好聽些。總的來說，這一過程都是以無傷大雅的方式完成的，所以絕大部分的謊言都是"善意的謊言"而不是"滿嘴跑火車"。

A HEARTBREAK

心碎

She may still be torn up inside over a breakup or a past love, but she'll gloss over it and act as if it doesn't really bother her still. Most likely, she's ready to date (or maybe not), but that heartbreak made quite a shatter in her.

也許她的內(nèi)心仍舊會因為一段分手或過去的戀情而備受折磨，但她會遮掩這一點，表現(xiàn)得好像一點都不在乎。而真相可能是，她已經(jīng)做好了約會的準(zhǔn)備（或者沒有準(zhǔn)備好），但那次心碎真的讓她悲傷不已。

EXERCISE AND ACTIVITY

鍛煉和活動

The trend is muscular but sexy, and let's face it: women have a lot of pressure to look a certain way. So if she's not as active as she "thinks" she should be, she may exaggerate to seem more fit and together.

現(xiàn)在的趨勢是既要有肌肉，還要保持性感，面對現(xiàn)實吧：女性面臨著很大的外貌壓力。所以如果她沒有她"以為"的那么活躍，那她可能會稍微夸大，使自己聽上去更加健康。

AVAILABILITY

有沒有空

A woman may make it seem as if she has had many dates even if she has not recently. Why? Well, women know the fun is in the chase and you appear more desirable when you're a little bit out of reach. She may want to appear as desirable and not desperate.

女人可能會假裝自己有很多約會，即使事實是她最近并沒有那么多約會。為什么？因為女人知道被追的樂趣，而且當(dāng)你表現(xiàn)得高不可攀時，男人會更想追求你。可能她想表現(xiàn)得有很多人愛，一點都不恨嫁吧！

VACATIONS

假期

She might say she went on an amazing vacation, but perhaps it was a really small getaway. This is only because she'd like to sound interesting to you, all while leaving out small facts like that her girlfriend annoyed her on the trip there…

她可能會說她度過了一個超贊的假期，但可能只是"一日游"。她這么說是因為她想讓你對她感興趣，同時忽略閨蜜在旅行中惹惱她的事實。

ABSENT PARENT

父母不在身邊

Whether she has a parent who is absent from her or she's raising a child who is missing out on a dad, she may be reluctant to share that information up front. Most likely, you won't find this out for some time, so it's not a lie but a slow reveal.

無論是在她的成長過程中父親/母親不在身邊，還是她獨自一人帶孩子（沒有父親），她可能都不愿意提前分享這些信息。更有可能的是，你需要一段時間過后才會知道這件事，所以這不是謊言，而是慢慢揭秘的過程。

MEALTIME

用餐

She may say she isn't that hungry and you may wonder if she is "one of those girls who doesn't eat," but truth is, she's either too nervous or she ate before you went out so she wouldn't go starving due to her nerves.

她可能會說她不是很餓，然后你就會想她是不是那種"不吃東西的姑娘，"但事實是，她要么就是太緊張，要么就是在你出門前吃過東西了，這樣她就不會因為緊張而餓壞了。

Everyone wants to put his or her best foot forward on a first date, so naturally, people tend to gloss over the truth or, in other words, make things sound better than they are. This is generally done in a harmless way, so let's consider these as "white lies" for the most part rather than "all-out" lies.

每個人都想在初次約會時呈現(xiàn)自己最好的一面，所以自然而然地，人們往往掩蓋真相，換句話說，會把話說的更好聽些。總的來說，這一過程都是以無傷大雅的方式完成的，所以絕大部分的謊言都是"善意的謊言"而不是"滿嘴跑火車"。

A HEARTBREAK

心碎

She may still be torn up inside over a breakup or a past love, but she'll gloss over it and act as if it doesn't really bother her still. Most likely, she's ready to date (or maybe not), but that heartbreak made quite a shatter in her.

也許她的內(nèi)心仍舊會因為一段分手或過去的戀情而備受折磨，但她會遮掩這一點，表現(xiàn)得好像一點都不在乎。而真相可能是，她已經(jīng)做好了約會的準(zhǔn)備（或者沒有準(zhǔn)備好），但那次心碎真的讓她悲傷不已。

EXERCISE AND ACTIVITY

鍛煉和活動

The trend is muscular but sexy, and let's face it: women have a lot of pressure to look a certain way. So if she's not as active as she "thinks" she should be, she may exaggerate to seem more fit and together.

現(xiàn)在的趨勢是既要有肌肉，還要保持性感，面對現(xiàn)實吧：女性面臨著很大的外貌壓力。所以如果她沒有她"以為"的那么活躍，那她可能會稍微夸大，使自己聽上去更加健康。

AVAILABILITY

有沒有空

A woman may make it seem as if she has had many dates even if she has not recently. Why? Well, women know the fun is in the chase and you appear more desirable when you're a little bit out of reach. She may want to appear as desirable and not desperate.

女人可能會假裝自己有很多約會，即使事實是她最近并沒有那么多約會。為什么？因為女人知道被追的樂趣，而且當(dāng)你表現(xiàn)得高不可攀時，男人會更想追求你。可能她想表現(xiàn)得有很多人愛，一點都不恨嫁吧！

VACATIONS

假期

She might say she went on an amazing vacation, but perhaps it was a really small getaway. This is only because she'd like to sound interesting to you, all while leaving out small facts like that her girlfriend annoyed her on the trip there…

她可能會說她度過了一個超贊的假期，但可能只是"一日游"。她這么說是因為她想讓你對她感興趣，同時忽略閨蜜在旅行中惹惱她的事實。

ABSENT PARENT

父母不在身邊

Whether she has a parent who is absent from her or she's raising a child who is missing out on a dad, she may be reluctant to share that information up front. Most likely, you won't find this out for some time, so it's not a lie but a slow reveal.

無論是在她的成長過程中父親/母親不在身邊，還是她獨自一人帶孩子（沒有父親），她可能都不愿意提前分享這些信息。更有可能的是，你需要一段時間過后才會知道這件事，所以這不是謊言，而是慢慢揭秘的過程。

MEALTIME

用餐

She may say she isn't that hungry and you may wonder if she is "one of those girls who doesn't eat," but truth is, she's either too nervous or she ate before you went out so she wouldn't go starving due to her nerves.

她可能會說她不是很餓，然后你就會想她是不是那種"不吃東西的姑娘，"但事實是，她要么就是太緊張，要么就是在你出門前吃過東西了，這樣她就不會因為緊張而餓壞了。